much of the story behind paradox is the same as anti bully, i think the paradigm is to lay low, not speak out, not be totally ourselves, because so many of us worry so much what others will think, about what we said or did, so many of us live with regrets, thinking, wishing we would have said something or done something, shift the paradigm and become the paradox who stands up, speaks out, and errs on the side of truth rather than whats cool or what the status quo is. anyone can fall victim to bullying, I was often bullied as a child, sadly within our community and society bullying continues well into adulthood, I was recently a victim of cyber bullying, the experience saddened me so deeply, after I pulled out of the depression the incident caused, I realized, we all need to make anti bullying the new cool, when you see someone being bullied, rather than standing silent or pilling on, stand up, do right, and be an anti bully, be the paradox.